If the equation $x ^ { 2 } + b x + 45 = 0 , b \in R$ has conjugate complex roots and they satisfy $| z + 1 | = 2 \sqrt { 10 }$, then\\ (1) $b ^ { 2 } - b = 30$\\ (2) $b ^ { 2 } + b = 72$\\ (3) $b ^ { 2 } - b = 42$\\ (4) $b ^ { 2 } + b = 12$