Let $P$ be a point on the parabola $x ^ { 2 } = 4 y$. If the distance of $P$ from the center of the circle $x ^ { 2 } + y ^ { 2 } + 6 x + 8 = 0$ is minimum, then the equation of the tangent to the parabola at $P$ is\\
(1) $x + y + 1 = 0$\\
(2) $x + 4 y - 2 = 0$\\
(3) $x + 2 y = 0$\\
(4) $x - y + 3 = 0$