For $\alpha \in \mathbb{N}$, consider a relation $R$ on $\mathbb{N}$ given by $R = \{(x, y) : 3x + \alpha y \text{ is a multiple of } 7\}$. The relation $R$ is an equivalence relation if and only if\\
(1) $\alpha = 14$\\
(2) $\alpha$ is a multiple of 4\\
(3) 4 is the remainder when $\alpha$ is divided by 10\\
(4) 4 is the remainder when $\alpha$ is divided by 7