If ( $2,3,5$ ) is one end of a diameter of the sphere $x ^ { 2 } + y ^ { 2 } + z ^ { 2 } - 6 x - 12 y - 2 z + 20 = 0$, then the coordinates of the other end of the diameter are\\
(1) $( 4,9 , - 3 )$\\
(2) $( 4 , - 3,3 )$\\
(3) $( 4,3,5 )$\\
(4) $( 4,3 , - 3 )$